That’s when she broke up with me, and idk if we’re getting back together, but I’m not a fan of this cycle either.
We stayed friends, then agreed to take things slow and get to know each other, until I thought she was being intentionally dishonest with me and not genuinely interested in a relationship and future together and just benching me while exploring getting back together with her ex. The immediate reason for us breaking up are my emotional reactions.
I’m a Scorpio man in love with an Aquarius woman. Their union is enriching and illuminating, and it is worth the occasional struggles. These two can learn so much more about the world when as a couple than when they are apart. If they focus on what brings them together rather than what threatens to pull them apart, their love will flourish and strengthen. There are certain aspects of Scorpio’s personality which may grate on Aquarius’ nerves (how Scorpio always looks deeply into things, is naturally suspicious, and can be possessive and controlling), and some aspects of Aquarius’ personality that grates on Scorpio’s nerves (does not display emotions, can be flirtatious or overly social with others, is not always consistent in action), there is a reason these two met and are experiencing life together. Both Aquarius and Scorpio have big egos and big pride, but knowing when to be the bigger person and apologize is key to maintaining a healthy and long-lasting partnership. Although this can add a lot of excitement to their partnership, it can also be detrimental if they take things too far and become overly pushy with each other. They both want the final word and they do not like to admit defeat. This means that when they get in debates or arguments, neither wants to back down. Neither sign is endowed with the gift of flexibility, particularly Scorpio. If Scorpio is able to loosen her grip and possessiveness, Aquarius can prove their loyalty to Scorpio by creating by their side and supporting their endeavors.Ī potential downfall of a Scorpio/Aquarius relationship is that they are both extremely stubborn. Being an Air sign, they want to be able to roam around as they please. Aquarius does not like the feeling of being tied down or possessed. As for Aquarius, it will always be very essential for them to have independence and exert freedom. No one else really matters as much as their partner. When Scorpio commits to someone, they are all-in 110%. That is not necessarily the case - Aquarius simply expresses affection for Scorpio in a much less overt way. There are times when Scorpio may feel like they are investing more into the relationship than they are getting in return. Aquarius’ natural instinct is to be cerebral and rational, so it will take some getting used to Scorpio’s emotiveness. Aquarius would rather have concrete answers on which facts point to something being wrong. For this reason, Aquarius may not always understand where Scorpio is coming from when they say that they “feel” something is not right. Scorpio is also quite an intellectual thinker, but Scorpio tends to follow intuition more than reason. An Aquarian mind is constantly bustling with exciting new concepts, and Aquarius can work independently on a project if they think it will benefit society or if they have a unique vision that others have not yet thought of. A Scorpio and Aquarius relationship is like a case of opposites attracting (although these two are not actually opposites in the zodiac).Īquarius loves coming up with abstract, unorthodox, futuristic, and progressive ideas. Air signs tend to be intellectually-oriented rather than emotionally-oriented.
Aquarius tends to be very mellow and does not like to spend too much time wallowing in their feelings. Aquarius is much more passive and indifferent than Scorpio. Scorpio feels everything on a very profound and intense level and is known for their tremendous passion. Scorpio in particular is much more emotional and subjective than Aquarius is. Their connection with each other is very unpredictable and has a tendency to go to extremes. When two Fixed signs come together, it is a very crazy ride! Scorpio and Aquarius have character traits that are not traditionally compatible, but that just makes their relationship all the more interesting. Scorpio is a Fixed Water sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Air sign.